Innocent Voices

25 February 2009 by beckaanne

On Sunday night, Elvis and I watched the movie Innocent Voices. The movie tells the story, based in truth, of a young boy, Chava, who is afraid to turn 12. You see, in El Salvador during their civil war (1980 -1992), as soon as a boy turned 12, the military would come to the schools and recruit the boys to fight the guerillas. It was a really good movie, despite some inaccuracies (for example the actors used a Mexican accent, not a Salvadorian accent – this part was good for me because I can’t understand the Salvadorian accent). The movie has some powerful scenes, including one in which Chava meets up with a friend of his from school who was recruited by the military. You can see how much the military changed him.

Also, towards the end, Chava and his friends escape to join the guerillas (Chava’s uncle had joined the guerilla forces long before). A few military men follow the boys to the guerilla camp and kill all of the adults. They take the four young boys down by the river, where there are dozens of bodies strewn about, and make them kneel. The first two boys are executed before other guerilla forces arrive. Chava manages to escape, but before he does, he picks up a gun. He has it aimed at one of the military members who, just seconds before, was about to kill him. Then Chava realizes that the “man” is a kid – just like him. He puts down the gun and escapes to safety.

Watching the movie began a conversation between Elvis and me about the civil war in Guatemala. The war in Guatemala was much longer (1960-1996) and occurred during Elvis’s history. This war was also between government forces and the guerillas. The United States had staged a coup d’ etat in 1954 to oust the Communist – leaning government of Jacobo Arbenz, a former military colonel because they didn’t think his politics meshed well with those of the US. In response to the increasingly autocratic rule of Gen. Ydigoras Fuentes, who took power in 1958 following the murder of Colonel Castillo Armas, a group of junior military officers revolted in 1960. When they failed, several went into hiding and established close ties with Cuba. This group became the nucleus of the forces that were in armed insurrection against the government for the next 36 years.

The war amounted to an ethnic cleansing, and tens of thousands of indigenous people were murdered, their homes and villages burnt, and families who did survive were separated. Most of these crimes were committed by the Guatemalan military. (You can read more about the Guatemalan civil war here: http://www.globalsecurity.org/military/world/war/guatemala.htm.)

I had previously been told that the effects of the civil war didn’t reach the department (similar to a county) of El Quiché, where Elvis was raised. I mentioned this to Elvis, and he looked at me as though I didn’t know anything. And I didn’t.

Elvis told me that he can remember his father running to hide from the military when they came to Canillá to recruit new members. (Who is going to join the military when they are being killed by the guerilla?) Elvis wasn’t even allowed to play outdoors most time – if the military saw a boy of decent size in the streets, they would kidnap them and make them join the army. He told me that once he was coming down from the mountain with some friends, just about to enter the town. The military was in the streets, yelling at everyone to get down. A young girl who had just left school didn’t listen to them, and they shot her at point blank range, killing her. Elvis was pretty far away and was pretty young, but he still remembers all of the details.

I can’t even imagine living through something like this. Living with fear and without hope for so many years. Elvis and his family were lucky – no one Elvis knew personally was killed during the war, but the effects of the war still devastate Guatemala (and El Salvador). Everything was destroyed; many infrastructure projects that could have been completed during those 36 years were not – such as paved roads in the countryside or perhaps water purification plants.
“Thanks to God, it’s over,” said Elvis. Yes, that’s true for Guatemala. Yet I wonder what is happening and what the future will be like in Iraq, Afghanistan, Darfur, and all of the other places around the world where there is a war. And what can we do to prevent this from happening again?

Pictures from the zoo

10 February 2009 by beckaanne

Lions and tigers and babies, oh my!

9 February 2009 by beckaanne

So I haven’t posted a real post in awhile, I’m sorry.  So since the 21st, lots of things have happened.  First, Tati (Elvis’s sister) had her baby (a little girl) on the 29th.  Her name is Keyla Alejandra.  She was born 25 days early, but both mom and baby are doing well.

Tina also gave birth to a baby girl (Sarah Anna named after her maternal great-grandmothers) on February 5.  Both mom and baby are doing well.

The Steelers won the Super Bowl on Feb 1 in case you missed it.  I was a nervous wreck in those last couple of minutes, but the boys pulled through in the end!

This weekend was an exciting one.  On Saturday we went to the zoo since it was such a nice day.  Mom says we went there before.  I don’t remember it at all.  We took Elvis’s cousin, Marlon, who lives with us one day every weekend.  All of us really enjoyed it once we figured out how to get in the parking lot (it’s not well marked, at all!).  We also watched a soccer game and played some basketball before the sun went down.   

Sunday we did all of our household stuff like laundry and cleaning before we headed to Goucher College to watch the Juniata basketball teams play the Gophers in a double-header.  The girls game wasn’t too exciting, and we won fairly easily.  The boy’s game was much more competitive.  Both teams have poor records (4-10 Juniata and 5-13 Goucher), so it was a really good game.  It came down to the last minute, but the Eagles won by 6 points in the end.  Then we went out to dinner with Christy and Cait (both graduated with me – I haven’t seen Cait since graduation day – wow!).

Now it’s a full week of work, perhaps a trip to NJ this weekend to see the new baby and some of Elvis’s relatives, and then a day off to recover!

Haha Too funny not to share!

28 January 2009 by beckaanne

just like mommy

 

 

(Here’s the reply the teacher received the following day)
Dear Mrs. Jones,
I wish to clarify that I am not now, nor have I ever been, an exotic dancer.
I work at Home Depot and I told my daughter how hectic it was last week before the blizzard hit. I told her we sold out every single shovel we had, and then I found one more in the back room, and that several people were fighting over who would get it. Her picture doesn’t show me dancing around a pole. It’s supposed to depict me selling the last snow shovel we had at Home Depot.
From now on I will remember to check her homework more thoroughly before she turns it in.
Sincerely,
Mrs. Smith

Another update – yay! :-)

21 January 2009 by beckaanne

Okay, so first things first. We have a new president – yay! :-) When I woke up at 6:30am yesterday and saw on the news that there were already hundreds of thousands of people in downtown DC, I decided NOT to come downtown. (I was seriously debating it…) However, after I saw the tons of people that were in the national mall (estimates are 2 million) I think I had a much better seat in the comfort of my own living room.

My First Quilt!

My First Quilt!


I managed to finish my quilt! (Remember – the one I started LAST January???) It’s actually only finished because I decided to make it into a baby blanket for Elvis’s sister’s daughter (she’s due at the end of February), so it’s smaller than I had originally planned, and it’s definitely NOT perfect, but it was a learning experience. Maybe by the time Tati has another baby, their quilt will be better haha!

Elvis and I went to the gym yesterday. We each got a free 30-day pass from Bally, so yesterday we went for the first time and worked up a little bit of a sweat on the ellipticals, treadmills and stationary bikes. Maybe we’ll try some weights today…who knows.

I also managed to finish 2 more Samurai Sudokus…

Guess that’s all! :)

Sudoku Genuis

16 January 2009 by beckaanne

I can see down below that a couple of people continue to check this site and I feel kind of badly because I haven’t updated in a little bit.

First, you can see New Year’s Eve pictures here: http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2024644&l=2cca3&id=75900409.

Secondly, we now have a design for our wedding invitations.  We also have a proto-type of the centerpieces for the tables.  Hopefully we will have the Guatemalan recuerdos (wedding favors) soon!

Thirdly, I have now solved my third Sudoku Samurai which I think is pretty impressive.  They put one in the newspaper every week on Fridays, so those are the only ones I’ve done until I just found that website – maybe I’ll do more!  Hehe! :-)

Not too much exciting has happened – been working and thinking wedding. :-)

I have off on Monday for Martin Luther King Jr day and on Tuesday for the inauguration – definitely looking forward to THAT! :-)

Yeah, guess that’s really everything.  It’s really cold outside!

Oh!

2 January 2009 by beckaanne

There has been a lot of wedding planning going on, too. We have the date, the place, the pastor and a website. Check it out here:
http://sites.google.com/site/elvisandrebecca/

Invites will probably be coming sometime in July or August…

Oh there’s no place like home for the holidays…

2 January 2009 by beckaanne

So December has come and gone, and oh what a month it was. It was mostly filled with Christmas shopping and holiday-ing. Like that word? :)

I went home from the 24 to the 28 sans Elvis. I was a bit disappointed that we didn’t have Christmas Eve services at the church. I think this is only the second time in my life that I haven’t been at services (the first being when I was in Ecuador) and it’s probably my favorite service of the year. Heather was at the house when I arrived home and we had fun playing board games and eating. Featured at this year’s Christmas Eve dinner was Indian food, complete with naan, Tandoori chicken, curry potatoes and fried worms. (Okay, so they weren’t really worms, they were fried dough soaked in rose water and sugar…not sure what they’re called, but Matthew insisted we have them.

Christmas day was fun, got a lot of great gifts including a GPS, a MD park pass and a bunch of lenses for my camera. I haven’t had much of a chance to use them, but I look forward to it! We also went to visit with both of my grandmothers which was great!

Friday I went shopping and got some amazing deals! I went to JC Penney’s and got three pairs of jeans. My bill came to $48 dollars. I added a sweater and my total came to $46. Yep, they paid ME to take the sweater away. If you look at the receipt, I saved $121 and spent $46. Pretty sweet, if you ask me!

Saturday I refused to change out of my pajamas until 7pm when Heather, Philip and I went to see Doubt. It was a pretty good movie – gets you thinking.

Sunday was church, then packing, then a typical Walters’ family Christmas party – half the family arrives late, you sit with people you see on a regular basis anyway, eat, play a couple of card games, get your gifts and leave. Total time: 2 hours. Then a drive back to DC which sucked. Not because of weather like the drive home, but because we would be driving 70 miles an hour, then we would come to a complete stop. For absolutely no reason. Then we would get back up to 70 again. Then stop. I really don’t understand why.

Last week was pretty uneventful until the 31st. We spent some time at the boys’ house, then went to pick up Veronica and headed to Latin Palace. We danced and had some really good conversations with the guys and came back home at 5am. Yes, 5 am. Yesterday we went to the boys’ house again and made soup for them (which turned out delicious) and hung out until returning home to watch PSU stick up the Rose Bowl. No more smelling like roses, but more like the manure they use to fertilize the roses. Oh well, c’est la vie.

Now we have to get back into a work schedule. For two full weeks. Then we have 2 days off for MLK Jr day and the inauguration. I’ll post pics from New Year’s Eve/day on Monday, hopefully!

it has been awhile

11 December 2008 by beckaanne

So, since I haven’t updated in 3 weeks or so, I guess I ought to do something about that.

A lot has happened during that time.  Perhaps most exciting is on November 22, Elvis proposed!  I wasn’t too surprised, after all we had the ring for a few months and I knew he wanted me to have it before we went to my parents’ house for Thanksgiving, but it was exciting nonetheless.  We went to Latin Palace (which is where we met) to dance that evening and after awhile we went upstairs and ordered food.  He started to tell me how much he loved me and all that romatic stuff and then he pulled the ring out of his wallet.  (He said it was too obvious if he carried the box in his pocket and he didn’t want to lose it if he left it loose in his pocket, haha.)  He asked me if I would marry him and I said “tomorrow” which had been our little game for awhile.  He was like be serious haha.  I said yes, of course, and we danced the rest of the night away.

The next week was work, then we left on Wednesday night to go to my parents’ house for Thanksgiving. Uncle Danny and Grandma came over to eat which was nice.  We taught Elvis how to play Dutch Blitz and Rummikub which was fun.

Friday we went shopping with Philip.  Then to Jenna’s house to watch Elvis’s new favorite holiday movie, Elf.

Saturday was Tina’s baby shower. Sunday church, checking out the reception site, then back to College Park.

Last week was filled with meetings.  From Monday through Wednesday I was at a retreat center not too far from the apartment for a meeting of the Business and Biodiversity Offsets Program at Forest Trends (that’s one of the programs I work for).  Then Thursday and Friday wasthe full staff meeting.  All of our non-DC based staff came to DC for those couple of days to work on our workplans for next year and work on program linkages, etc.  

This weekend, we spent a lot of time with Elvis’s friends which was a lot of fun.  This week has been filled with a lot of work and I better get to some of it today before I get in trouble!  Hehe.

Rafting Pictures

1 December 2008 by beckaanne

Pictures from when I went white water rafting in Costa Rica are available here:

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2023558&l=0293a&id=75900409

longer post later…